Sara Schmaltz, SBD

I’ve been married to the love of my life, Jon, since May of 2002.  We have 8 children; 7 in our arms, 1 waiting in Heaven for us, safe in the arms of Jesus.  I decided to pursue becoming a Stillbirthday Birth and Bereavement Doula following the stillbirth of my 6th daughter, Stephanie Joanna, on July 16^th 2012, at 38 weeks 3 days.  Our 7th and 8th babies, our “Double Rainbow” babies, came 11 months, 2 weeks and 4 days after Stephanie.

I was so blessed by those who walked along side of me (not actual Doula’s) that I wanted to do the same for others. Our circumstances may vary slightly or significantly, but I’ve come to realize, regardless of the circumstances, the pain is the same.  I believe, parents who’ve lost a baby have a general understanding of what another grieving parent is feeling, however, I will never say that I know exactly what you are going through. There are too many factors for that to be true. My passion is to take hurting families under my wing and guide them through the early hours, days and weeks of grief.

My vision is to come alongside families so that they don’t feel alone. If you are willing, I will offer suggestions for you to create lasting memories of your precious baby. Whenever possible, if you wish to have me there with you before, during or after delivery, I will do my best to be there for you. I’ve compiled a list of Funeral Homes and local and national resources.  I can help you plan your Farewell Celebrations.  All of this can be provided via email or from one of the local hospitals, but I would be honored if you would let me into your grief and allow me to guide you on a more personal level. My bereavement services are complimentary, so please don’t let cost keep you from requesting my services. My hope is that you will see, it is possible to not only survive but to thrive and find joy again.

In addition to serving my local community, or when it’s just not possible for me to support a family in person, I am also available to help via email and cell phone.